Hindu Muslim marriage

byDr. Dilip Amin

Difficulties and Reconciliations

Forty-five real Hindu-Muslim couples' accounts from InterfaithShaadi.org map the practical challenges of interfaith relationships in India.

Overview

Forty-five people shared their experiences on InterfaithShaadi.org, a non-profit public forum where Hindus and Muslims involved in relationships across religious lines describe what those relationships actually involve. Dr. Dilip Amin gathered those accounts, changed the names to protect identities, and built from them a book aimed at a specific audience: young people in Hindu-Muslim relationships who may not have fully anticipated what religious differences mean in practice.

Amin does not take sides. His purpose is not to discourage such relationships but to make visible the specific points of friction that real couples have described: child-rearing, conversion pressure, family acceptance, and the divergent assumptions about marriage that each tradition carries. By staying close to documented experience rather than theological argument, the book focuses on outcomes rather than doctrine. The author notes openly that identities could not be verified and information was not authenticated; the accounts are treated as educational material, not testimony.

All proceeds go toward pluralism and social equality projects. Whether readers are considering an interfaith relationship or trying to understand one already underway, forty-five real accounts offer more grounding than either abstraction or prejudice.

It is not the author's goal to criticize any religion. However, in order to make young people in Hindu-Muslim relationships aware of potential situations arising from differences in religious upbringing, the main differences between the various religions are highlighted. The author used 45 real-life experiences of Hindu-Muslim dating or married couples from the non-profit public forum InterfaithShaadi.org. Their names have been changed to protect their privacy. The author has neither verified the identity of the commentators nor authenticated the information they provided on the forum. Considering that their information is already publicly available, the author has used the information in this book for educational purposes. The author intends to use all proceeds from the sale of this book to promote pluralism and social equality through various projects.

Author

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Dr. Dilip Amin

T he author has a doctorate degree in Pharmacology and is a lifelong (42 years) researcher in the medical field. Dr. Dilip Amin has earned 6 patents and authored 23 scientific publications. He was born in Gujarat, India and is now settled in America. Dr. Amin has traveled to 27 countries to learn about different cultures and religions. He was a President of Plymouth Balvihar, Blue Bell, Pennsylvania, USA, and is a founder of the Balvihar at Sanatan Mandir, San Bruno, California. Dr. Amin is a Director of Peninsula Multifaith Coalition in the San Francisco Bay area. He is a certified speaker at Islamic Networks Group, San Jose, California. He is a Dharma Ambassador with Hindu American Foundation. He co-authored the book Vivaha Samskara: The Hindu Wedding Ceremony. Dr. Amin founded a Forum for Interfaith Marriage with Equality (InterfaithShaadi.org) in 2009 where he guided more than 900 youths in their interfaith love relationship issues.

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